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Archive for February, 2009


Your Emotional Brain and You

by Dr. Mike Gosling

All internal or external events that occur in your life are interpreted by your brain. If in fact we have positive feelings about a life event, that’s equates to a Non-Problem Status. And so we really only need to worry about life dramas when they create a negative emotion. Why? This article, the first of seven, will help you understand why.

Right now – today, I’m going to share with you the importance of using your emotional brain to realize how your body reacts to events.

Randy Pausch, a 47 year old college professor, who recently passed away due to pancreatic cancer, said, “Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you want”. What is your experience of the events in your life?

Dr Mike Gosling says, “Life is a series of events. Every event is an opportunity for change. It’s from the most painful events that you change the most.” Do you agree with Dr Mike?

Every event in your life that occurs, is interpreted by your brain. External events are received into your brain through our five senses and we are constantly busily examining our internal environment as well – what’s going on inside of our brain and body – to assess and to work out what’s going on in our life.

And, we really need only worry about life dramas when they create a negative emotional charge and when we have a negative experience. Why?

Every negative experience that we have results in us accumulating stress, because every single emotion, every negative emotion that you have, is actually an Adrenalin response.

Because every single negative experience that we have will result in us accumulating stress, because every emotion, every negative emotion that you have, is actually an Adrenalin response.

To go further, if I were to draw for you a cartoon sketch of a cross-section of our brain, the two major parts of the brain that are useful to know about is that section that resides just above the brain stem. It’s called the Limbic System and the Cortex, the thinking part of the brain.

The Limbic System accomplishes all the feeling in the brain. This is a primitive part of the brain – and animals have a Limbic system – and it is responsible for our preservation instinct.

The Limbic System accomplishes all the feeling in the brain. This is a primitive part of the brain – animals have a Limbic system also – and it is responsible for our preservation instinct.

The other part of the brain, which does all the thinking, is called the Cortex. Now human beings have a very developed Cortex, so we have a larger brain than most animals. The Limbic System and the Cortex are constantly inter-playing with one another.

The Limbic System is the part of the brain that assesses first, all the different senses that come into the body, through sight, sound, touch, taste, smell.

If you’re tasting something, that experience is first assessed by the Limbic System for danger to determine whether or not there is anything about what you are sensing that is going to create a threat to this organism that it’s looking after.

That’s all for now. In my next article I’ll share with you the story of the zebra; how it uses its brain to deal with danger or threat. Are we like the zebra? Its all part of what I call The Science of Emotional Wealth. So be sure to keep an eye out for my articles.

All material in this email is provided for information only and may not be construed as medical advice or instruction. No action or inaction should be taken based solely on the contents of this email. Instead, readers should consult their physician or other qualified health professionals on any matter relating to their health and well-being. Readers who fail to consult with appropriate health authorities assume the risk of any injuries. The publisher is not responsible for errors or omissions.

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Image Consultants are not only for the rich and famous!

by Erika

An Image or Fashion Consultant is the best accessory you can have in your life! A fashion stylist is no longer a luxury reserved for the Rich and Famous.

As work happens, sometimes you loose track of yourself. Being stressed with work, family, kids, school, or anything else that requires a lot of your time keeps you on the run and very busy. As time goes by things change yet you somehow remain pretty busy. You have lost track of yourself and somewhere along the line you just naturally fell into a comfort zone.

Getting dressed should be a simple process. You wear whatever is convenient, clean, and not wrinkled. You are unsure if you have any stylish outfits. Your comfort Zone tells you that you don’t have time to style your hair because you are too busy. It prevents you from finding the time to shop for clothes yourself or even remember what you use to like about fashion. You are unsure as to what even looks good on you.

We all have fashion comfort zones. An Image Consultant recognizes your zone and helps to re-establish your fashion image. Sometimes shopping is exhausting. The fashion trends and styles change so frequently making it a dreadful experience. Many people just wind up fashion personal stylist. They put outfits together for you based on your lifestyle, personality, career, age, and most importantly body structure.

When you are shopping with your Image Consultant, they help you to understand the stores, brands and styles. An Image Consultant teaches you about what style will compliment your shape and what will not. Getting back in touch with your body to rediscover the beauty within is always a life changing event. Updating your wardrobe to accommodate your life can be a rewarding wake-up call. You can wear casual clothing and still be stylish. The key here is STYLISH! You can look good and feel comfortable. It is not a compromise. Whether it’s casual, business casual, chic, or timeless elegance an Image Consultant can help develop your signature style.

Do you have a closet full of nothing to wear? Are your clothes dated, out of style, or just sitting in your closet because you have aspirations to loose weight? The most motivating factor is to FEEL GOOD IN THE SKIN YOUR IN. When you look good you feel good. When you feel good, you have more energy and confidence. Is it time for you to hire an Image Consultant?

Own Your Image!

Erika Chloe is New York’s premiere Image Consultant and CEO of www.MyImageExpert.com – a Fashion Consulting Company with offices in most U.S cities. She is an established Fashion Designer who’s clothing line can be found in Bloomingdales, Macy’s, and Lord & Taylor. Erika has worked for Harper’s Bizarre Magazine and has done styling work for FHM Magazine. She has a Bachelor’s Degree in Textile Design with a specialization in Fabric Styling from The New York Fashion Institute of Technology – NYU

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Making Your Life Easier With Free People Search

by Edouard Pierre

It is very important to keep in touch with your close friends once in awhile and one of the frustrating parts that people may experience is when all lines of communication are lost either due to misplacement of personal details or time constraints. It may seem that all hope is lost, but with the help of various internet services, it is possible to make your life easier and find people using free people search services. Here are some great ways to make the most out of free people search.

What About Using Google

A Google people search can be the first thing you can do to find people since it is as easy as going to Google.com and typing the full name along with other keywords such as the location the person is from and any other data that can restrict your search. This can give you some good results ranging from social networking profiles to personal homepages.

Using People Directories

A lot of web services allow users who want to be found by others to submit some of their personal information for public record. This information gets displayed to the public in the form of people directories where you can enter a free people search there and display results based on a few criteria. After that, depending on the type of people search and how much information they shared, you can get their contact number or e-mail address.

Using Messaging Networks

There are copiousness of fast messaging clients and networks out there that each has their own respective mortal lowborn. Honorable some all of them bonk a “Gestate People search” deciding where you can save the call along with whatsoever information and the database is searched. Any results that arise up can be other to the direct product and the contacts can ready in alter from there.

Using Social Networking Websites

Social networks are the most popular and modern approaches to free people search. This is because many of them are free to sign up on and making a user profile is very straightforward. Social networks have the most interactive features and allow people to upload additional content like pictures and videos. Anyone willing to start searching for people should try joining a few networks and finding any familiar faces.

Ever recall that results are minor to the opposite group if they poorness to be launch or not. Seclusion settings of whatever individuals can egest them unattainable to make so you shouldn’t judge to ascertain everyone using these methods. Nevertheless, there is no impairment in trying a unconfined group investigate as free people search and if you use the polar agency in doing so, you may get openmouthed to feel many of your durable damned.

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How To choose The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts

by Suzanne Walsh

Valentine’s Day is one of the best chances for lovers to speak out their feelings with the help of creative gifts. Romance plays an important role in choosing the perfect gifts, but some psychology is also needed.

The best present is the one that tells your lover about your feelings, while matching his or her needs. Ideas can be countless. A little bit of brainstorming will do wonders for your decision.

Evaluate thoroughly your financial status and see how much money you can afford to spend. Good gifts are not necessarily the most expensive ones.

Valentine’s Day is not specific to a single nation. It is rather an international holiday. Love is international anyway, so why wouldn’t be so its celebration? Romance and lovers are the same all over the place.

Chocolate is tasty and romantic, so it can make a great choice of a present for Valentine’s. Suitable for both boys and girls, chocolate candies come in many shapes such as hearts or flowers, and they may have different fillings and flavors such as strawberries, vanilla, or bananas.

The easiest way to make a quick and inspired choice can be a big food gift basket, full of goodies which would make your mouth watery. It has been proven by scientific research that eating together increases the happiness of a couple. Get a slice of happiness by giving your Valentine one of those great gift baskets.

If you are poor, you don’t have to be miserable for not having money for expensive gifts. Send a Valentine card ans try to be very creative when you compose the message.

When buying the gift for your Valentine, do not follow your preferences but his or hers. It is not you who should enjoy the gift after all, so don’t buy it like it was meant for you.

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Find Christian Singles Looking For You!

by Mark Crespie

Find Christian singles that are compatible with you – IT IS NOT THAT DIFFICULT. One of the greatest things about the internet are the fantastic online dating services available for Christian singles looking to meet Christian singles online.

These online Christian dating services have the perfect setup for those of us trying to find Christian singles close to our home. The members of these Christian dating websites are able to create profiles, and leave a photo, video or email. They have different membership levels also for those of us who aren’t looking to spend any money. Free is almost always my favorite price.

To find Christian singles at one of these sites is quite simple to accomplish. You don’t need to be a computer expert or even computer literate. If you can type your name and email your good. If you can follow the simple instructions on how to upload a photo – you’re doing great. These Christian dating websites have made it simple to join – so don’t be scared. Go check it out.

One of the best features of the better sites is the ability to drill down your search and find Christian singles within miles or blocks of your home. There have been wonderful stories of people meeting Christian singles in their very church! Obviously, the web was used as a wonderful medium for Christian singles made for one another.

It doesn’t matter what type of Christian you are – it is easy to find Christian singles if you use one of the free Christian singles websites out there to assist you in your search. There are sites for Asian Christian singles, Black Christian singles, Hispanic Christian singles, and local Christian singles networks in almost every city. I had to smile when I saw a site devoted to Ebony Christian singles! I think you get the point. God’s people come in all flavors – and there is a way to find Christian singles that are just right for you.

Another great attribute of the Christian singles dating online is that you can find Christians that are looking for long term relationships or you can find Christian singles that are just looking for someone to talk to. There is something for everyone- all you have to do is look.

Friendly people, easy to use websites, and an aura of friendliness. This is what you’ll get if your trying to find Christian singles at one of the better Christian online dating services. They’ve made it quite easy and fun to find Christian singles anywhere in the world!

If you’re interested in finding out more about this blessed medium of finding Christian singles for friendship and dating – you need to visit the website below. It’s free to set up your profile and within minutes you may be face to face with the one who was created for you!

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